Screening in the UK , why do they all refuse ?

I am a 25 year old full service escort based in London UK due to my circumstances I have to do incalls from my home I have a Ring camera installed !
I just need to save some money and I have a goal to reach after that back to outcalls although outcalls would give me the most anxiety EVER !

Anyways when I ask these men to send their ID (Drivers license/ passport) they refuse even when I tell them it’s just for safety purposes and I’ll delete them after they still refuse.
For me if you don’t want to comply then I am going to assume you have bad intentions ngl.
Does anyone have this problem?
It’s actually ridiculous.
The only reason why I’m asking for ID is because I’m so scared that one of these crazy guys will kill me so I need to have ID just in case
If I die, I don’t want it to be in vain.
I want the person to be caught very quickly.