Best friend triggering to eat with

Is it wrong of me to tell my best friend I don’t want to do food based activities with her atm as I found last time we did very triggering? She knows all about my ed.

Last time we hung out we went out for dinner and she just sat there and didn’t really eat any of her food. The next day when we hung out she had a tiny breakfast and then nothing to eat again till dinner (and as a result I didn’t either which is not good lol).

I know everyone has different eating habits, and she doesn’t have an ed, but I just feel like it’s not useful for me to be around that at the moment. But I’m just afraid she’s going to accuse me of projecting and that it’s for pro ed reasons