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Dirge0mancey

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Need Help

I am a newbie at networking and internet security, need some advice regarding remote accessing my ProxMox server while note putting my home network at risk.

Unfortunately I do not have full control over my network as I cant replace my home router as other people in my flat also use this stuff and I cant just rip it out and put my own network in place. If you take a look at the diagram, I only control the unmanaged switch, my PC and the ProxMox server. I cant install a new router and I cant switch the router to bridge mode.

https://preview.redd.it/9ksw61lggyeh1.png?width=1156&format=png&auto=webp&s=f79f46285314efe3429fa346d0b54966a071fe22

the prox mox server is supposed to be a remote coding environment I can access from work and personal laptops/mobiles as well as a media server.

So the advice I am looking for is, what sort of setup would give me secure remote access and would not put the rest of the network I can't control at risk?

I have seen cloudflare tunnels as an option though I'm not a fan of exposing my data to them unencrypted.
I've looked at things like wireguard and reverse proxies but am unsure about how they work with a network you don't fully control as most examples show people using pfsense or something similar on custom routers or bridged routers.

Posted Jul 23, 2026, 10:23 AM UTC

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