I've wanted to Dom forever, finally found a boyfriend who's into it and he shared his fantasy...

and I'm a little bemused. I've always dreamed of being worshipped, of being in control and being able to take out all my sexual urges on someone desperate to please me, of having this sexual tension of knowing he's desperate for me and rewarding him by demanding he do exactly what I need to get me off. I like bondage too, him begging, telling him how lucky he is, and even Mommy Dom with some caretaking. I do really get off on the subs pleasure in doing all this and making him cum too.

My boyfriend told me his kink is a woman making him cum without him having to do anything, but in a very bossy way. Like, "get your cock out, you need to cum right now. What are you doing, get your hands on my tits and don't let go until you cum" while she rides him and does all the things that will send him through the roof bc she knows exactly what he needs in every detail and he just lays there and cums super hard. I'm not familiar with this dynamic in femdom, is it called something in particular? I guess to me most or all of the focus being on the man getting exactly what he wants and getting an orgasm just sounds like... typical hetero sex dynamics in our society lol. I'm having a hard time getting into Dom space when I'm the one serving him.