Why do cis men always have the most to say in trans “debates”

I mean this with the least shade possible but genuinely… who asked you? I’m not saying men aren’t entitled to their own opinions opinions but why is it that whenever the bathroom topic or trans women in sports is brought up it’s always men that have the most to say?? Please don’t misinterpret this as me saying that nobody should have opinions on things that don’t affect them, because that’s not at all what I’m saying. But to me (and i feel like a lot of people may agree), this is just another way for them to feel like they have control over what women do or say. It’s annoying. And they spew the most hateful, bigoted nonsense whenever these topics are brought up? Genuinely who invited you into this conversation? ESPECIALLY if it’s a man that has shown time and time again that he has no respect for women whatsoever? So now that trans women are brought up, you’re now #1 feminist? Oh ok…?