42M INTP looking for my match
About me
I am looking for friends and maybe something more. My timeline for something more is multiple months away not days away though. Friendship and connection matters more.
I am a nerd and like most nerdy things. My main passion is music, just listening and deep diving into it. I am not an artistic person so don't create. My daily listen is metal or 90s alternative. But I love most music and am comfortable listening to most things. And if you don't like metal, that's fine. I like to wear noise cancelling headphones so it works for both of us. Lol
I love deep discussions into abstract and theoretical topics. While I love that, I would also like a partner where we can be comfortable in each other's silence. My love language is banter, quick wit and sarcasm.
I consider myself a pretty simple person, my daily look is black t-shirt and jeans, or a polo and khakis. I dress up more for occasions but normally just want to be comfortable. Try to be generally comfortable in most things.
My friends consider me open-minded, kind, and easy going. I do have strong feelings about things but also don't judge others who differ and love learning and discussing different view points, bonus points if you remember a time when that was more common.
Like the title says, I am looking for my match. Post your Myers-Briggs results in a DM if you want to chat. While I have a certain preference in mind I am open to chat with anyone.
Have a great weekend!!
Posted Jul 25, 2026, 7:39 PM UTC