29 [M4F] #NYC #Queens - Inexperienced seeking a fwb with an emphasis on the friends part
Hey there! I'm looking for a FWB dynamic with someone who values consistency, communication, and actually getting to know each other. I'm not really interested in one-night stands.
I am going to be in Brooklyn or Manhattan tonight so if you're feeling spontaneous and would like to grab a drink or chat over a meal I am open to make it happen but it would just be for conversation.
Good communication is a huge thing for me, and I tend to take people at their word, so I really appreciate people who are clear and direct.
Sex-wise, I'm still gaining experience because my previous experiences never really got past the "first time" stage. I'm not looking for someone to teach me. I'm looking for someone who enjoys building chemistry together over time. I have plenty of interests and kinks I'd like to explore eventually with the right person, but none of them are deal breakers. I'd rather have great communication and enjoyable sex.
I'm much more attracted to someone's personality than having a strict physical type.
If we get along outside of the bedroom / inside that's more so what counts.
Outside of that, I've spent the last year or so focusing on self-improvement. I've been lifting, working on skincare, learning more about financial literacy, and generally trying to build the life I want. I'm goal-oriented, but I'm also the type to ramble about random topics for hours, make dumb jokes, and happily disappear on spontaneous adventures if you ask me.
I trained service dogs for people with disabilities for a while, I love animals, and I somehow have a Google Doc dedicated entirely to food recommendations.
Physically I'm white, 6'0", around 220 lbs. I'm currently recomping, so I'm a little heavier than my normal walking-around weight while leaning back down. Broad shoulders, green-blue eyes, and strawberry blonde hair.
I can't host at the moment because of life circumstances, but I have no problem consistently getting a hotel if things become physical. That being said I am open to traveling to Long Island, Brooklyn or the city.
Posted Jul 25, 2026, 7:39 PM UTC