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CloudThen4133

Ghosted from my boyfriend

Im (f20) I met this guy on tinder he was (m31) we talked for a bit he has chronic adhd and ended up meeting and we hung out for the entire day it started off really well and then a few weeks go by everything seems magical and so romantic never have felt happyer in my life until me and him made a plan to hangout and the next day I called him a few hours after he said he would call me he never did called him and he was in a car wash and I told him you were supposed to hangout with me today at this time and he said oh fuck oh fuck I'm so sorry baby Iv had a really tough weekend and he proceeded to say after I have a soft ball game I have to go to il call you or see you when it's over and I said okay and hung up a few hours pass never called or texted and called him the next day and he was working he said he would call me on his lunch break didn't call me or text me at all that day I called him a few times and messaged him never answered it's been 8 days now since he hasn't contacted me and disspered out of know were I noticed on Snapchat his snap score went up a bit so I think he is actively ignoring me witch hurts me so much because why would he lead me on into a relationship that he didn't want and I made it clear to him that I wanted a relationship I'm very sad and depressed this happened to me I've never been ghosted before and it's super painful I thought he really liked me and I'm not even sure if he will even text me or call me again he lives 6 minutes away from me and I honestly don't know how to deal and feel about this it hurts me so much

Posted Jul 25, 2026, 7:41 PM UTC

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