31M [M4F] Bangalore/Anywhere - Hiring a life partner
Greetings, I'm a lean built/slim fit 31 yo 5'9 Maharashtrian guy in Bangalore (originally from Mumbai), hoping to find someone who loves vada pav, butter chicken, pasta, and biryani as much as I do.
FOMO is catching up on me, and here I am, hiring a life partner and a permanent roommate. *Aur aaj hamari ask hai 50% equity in your life in exchange for lifetime partnership & full-time commitment to you!*
I work in the digital marketing industry at an MNC here, and when I'm not working, I love listening to international music (like 99% international). I do not smoke/vape, and drink only socially & occasionally, like once in a quarter or so.
I have been an atheist since teenage, cause I believe religion is controversial and causes unnecessary conflicts worldwide, and that's why, *hum science ki taraf se hai!*
Mostly a homebody who wants to go out, I like working out, playing chess & video games in my leisure time. Can cook a few basic things, including sandwiches, south indian dishes & chicken, and would like to cook the same for my future partner.
I love watching science fiction and thriller movies, TV shows & anime, and like doing a deep dive into consumer tech and whatever I see in sci-fi. Would like to yap & explain the same to TLOML and can make you at least remotely like these things from my POV.
I have been called a geek & nerd because of the same (and also cause I'm somewhat of a Grammar Nazi), and since I look young for my age, people often mistake me for a college student. Although I told myself I'll live a humble life, I did indulge in some shopping after moving here.
Looking for a fun-loving, stoic, smart, curious, goal-oriented, wise, mature woman with a progressive mindset who will understand me to the core and will not give up on me, and chooses me every single day.
Someone to come home to hold hands, dance, chat, cook, enjoy, live, laugh, and love.
Someone honest, loyal, consistent & considerate, whose angels and demons play well with mine.
Someone bold, rational, logical, and equally emotionally intelligent, who can be a sight for sore eyes, especially after a long day, who is serious about building a relationship and thriving together, where we can be ourselves with each other with no fear of judgement, and can share our thoughts and opinions truly unfiltered.
Someone who prefers solving the challenge at hand rather than giving a silent treatment or running away from the problem.
Someone who does not becomes attached, but an old-fashioned slow burn that starts with real friendship, turns into mutual lifelong connection with unbreakable bond and evolves into a life built together, where we remember little things about each other, share about our day, have playful arguments, crack jokes with the intention of bringing a smile to our faces and at the end of the day only mean well and bring out the best in each other and find the perfections in imperfections, and extraordinary in the everyday ordinary things and cherish those moments.
I believe that communication, trust, and respect are 2 way streets, and only one-sided efforts will not get us anywhere. I'm all in for having difficult conversations cause that's when you know it is real.
Would like to know you better beyond the surface level, about your childhood, upbringing, friends, social circle, family dynamics, what ticks you off, what gets you excited, and what makes you, YOU. If this sounds like something you want to have in your life, hit me up!
Posted Jul 25, 2026, 7:42 PM UTC