Are my standards to high for a man in utah?

Hi reddit. Im struggling to find a good man in utah. Im just curious if its me. Because. My standards are.

1. He must make over 6 figures. The lowest ill take is 100k.

2. He must be very buff and handsome.

3. He must be 6ft 8.

4. He must make me have butterflies in my stomach everytime he walks by me

Things that give me the ick are

1. He loves me for me and accepts me

2. He wants to be loyal to me.

3. He wants to be with me and cuddle and hold me

4. He takes me out.

5. He doesnt let me have guy friends in my phone

6. He doesnt let me go out without him

7. He doesnt let me dress the way I want. (Skimpy clothes). Like it reall shows how insecure he is.

Like I really need help on how to find a good man. Like I dont think im asking for too much in a man. Im 27 almost 28. Should I raise my standards.