I have strong feelings for a girl who’s cheated before.
I really like this girl who I know for a fact has cheated in a prior relationship. It was her relationship before last and then in her last relationship, she was the one who got cheated on.
For specifics, this girl cheated on her boyfriend with another girl. She was basically at a point in their relationship where she was feeling confused about her sexual orientation. Her and this other girl dated for only about 4-5 months before this new girlfriend of hers cheated and now here we are. I’ve heard through the grapevine that this girl and her ex-boyfriend have made some type of peace in the aftermath of the cheating. I don’t know that they necessarily are on regular speaking terms, but they appeared to have buried the hatchet to some degree.
This girl now identifies as bisexual and I can’t get her out of my head. I'll even go so far as to say that she checks off every box in terms of shared interests, looks, personality, etc, but I also don’t want to get cheated on. At the same time, I’m 30 and feeling like it’s almost too late for me to find love. How do I navigate this?
Posted Jul 25, 2026, 7:47 PM UTC