crazy stalker frnd who won't leave me alone

Rant & Vent :ranting:

hie </3

i had blocked this person (supposed classmate and a frnd who never rly liked me and wanted me around so she and her bf could hangout together in clg w/o looking sus bec her mom is strict abt her having bf and all, tho she was very sweet samne se, uski nazar and the way she made me felt was clear that i was js for convenience, theek h nvm.

uska bf mujhe har time insult karta tha js to make my frnd feel better and she always stayed quite as if usse farak bhi nhi pada. infact yeh bf ke frnds ne mujhe support kiya saying to my frnd how could she stay silent when her bf is insulting me. she never rly cared.

she is a huge fatphobe so is her mom, and theek h mujhe tum insult karo ki yea im overweight and shit, par meri mummi ko bhi insult kyu karna? her mom insults me always by saying moti hai kitni, and even to my mom? mei bolu toh how my frnd and her mom are soo bald? sabke so called flaws hote hai but js bec i stay quite doesn't mean she keeps saying things to even my fam

before our clg was abt to end, i confronted her saying sternly ki mujhe nhi pasand when she or her mom comments on me or my family abt our body, and all that, tab bhi she stayed quite.

and literally next day her mom started again how fat im and how i should be like them, always active and always going out. like bro? theek hai pata chala im fat, har time kitna shame karoge? yeh frnd mujhe canteen mei eek fried rice khane ke liye bhi shame karti hai while she shoves food herself everyday in canteen when i don't even, canteen is made to eat food i get it but js bec she's slim doesn't mean she got the authority to keep on shaming me.

anyways itna sab hone ke badh i was like yeh friendship toh genuine tha bhi nhi, i blocked her ass. she started calling me non stop, then from our mutual frnd, usse call karvaya, then from her mom's phone and even her dad's. never picked up and blocked her all contacts. but i thought to js text her mom that "im all good, im at native, will call u back myself" js so to shut them up.

abhi eek month hua and this beach comes to my new apt??? she didn't even knew where i lived at my old building and aaj yaha tak aayi. and aake she kept quite while our mutual frnd (btw she doesn't give a damn if im alive or not, js a puppet of that tpxic beach) came to my home to invite me at her bday? and this whole time yeh beach meri mummy ko gande se ghurr rhi hai but wait where was i?

i was actually sleeping originally, but when they came, my mom woke up and thought that was a prank but luckily they were at living room so i braced myself and hid under the covers and this beach was so persistent to meet me, she indirectly forced my mom to let her come in my bedroom to see me, my mom said im ill and asleep and tried waking up, i was fake sleeping and my sheets were over my head so i never let her saw my face, and then she got away to living room, and kept glaring at my mom. man wtf??

BRO U HATE ME SOO BAD TOH ITNA KYU AA RHI HAI? MEI ITNI GANDI HU TOH MAAT AA NA CHUDAIL. ITNI MEHERBANI KAR RHI HAI AT MY OWN HOME WHEN I DIDN'T EVEN INVITED YOU????

IM ACTUALLY TRAUMATIZED. uski mummy itni nosy hai that now even she can come. and tbh im deeply exhausted and irritated by this behavior

we met when we were in 11th yea, and um when she got to know yeh certain guy mera crush hai? started talking to him, got so close and fir mujhe bolti hai, "tujhe pata hai, wo na mujhe headpat kar rha tha, tere saath kabhi kiya?" in innocent voice????

then when our ug started, kept on insulting me how boring and unfunny im, i did fight back, but then she needed me so that she and her bf could be together while im there so that its all good.

she actually likes when everyone around her is praying her, yk cult frndships where everyone js chants one frnd? thats her.

agar if i had any other opinion, mujhe groupism karti thi, kitne baar she have left me out and then acted like a innocent baby saying "aww i thought u wouldn't wanna join" when earlier that day i had made sure i was interested in playing stuffs online.

so many small incidents man, har time she has insulted me whenever she felt threatened, ik i should have ended this shit long ago, but yea. now she's acting like a stalker.

how do i deal with this mentally? bec i thought i was safe at my own home par isse mera ghar bhi pata chal gya meaning she can drop by anytime and hurt me. ofc

Posted Jul 25, 2026, 11:26 PM UTC

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