why do i keep getting blocked

i seriously have no idea what i’m doing wrong. i guess ghosting is common for people my age (20) but it keeps happening and it’s really driving me crazy. i don’t wanna sound cocky but i think i’m not such a bad person. i take care of my appearance, im smart, i have good morals, and im funny as fuck.

ive noticed there’s quite a pattern in all of this. all the guys that do this WANTED ME FIRST. i genuinely just dont get it. they text me a lot, flirt with me, ask me out on dates and after a few weeks or even months of talking they just become distant. when i check their account, its either they unfollowed me or blocked me.

im trying to read old conversations and i really dont think i did anything wrong. even if i did, im usually not a prideful person and i tend to acknowledge my mistake and apologize just to keep relationships.

i tried not to think abt this. i dont wanna be the type to question my worth just because of some guys but its really starting to get to me. its the fact that i dont even know what i did wrong. i have no idea why this keeps happening to me. maybe once or twice was okay but this happened to me like 6 times already. with that amount, i cant help but think that maybe i am the problem. i feel like an idiot and i guess its my fault coz i keep giving these guys a chance knowing the same thing will happen.

pls help me what am i doing wrong here 🥲

Posted Jul 25, 2026, 11:28 PM UTC

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