What makes you idealize women you just met?

Its one of the idealization cases again happens way too often with me , im always attracting these people they’re intensely attached at beginning and very quick those relations end before even barely starting, they are also incredibly toxic

these men will always want to talk a lot almost all the time they will get anxious if i domt reply and slightest thing can disappoint them and result in them being possesive but as i said these relationships end before even starting, they last a good 2 weeks at best and then once the idealization wears off and they realize they’re talking to a actual human with faults

they lose interest and pull back immediately no explanation nothing they wouldn’t directly end the relationship like how me and you would but they will start already giving it off such as calling you sister or start treating you as one of their buddies

i unfortunately seem to attract this type always and as we were talking there’s already one in my insta dms barely know this guy and hes already sending “ may god protect her she is the most precious women i ever knew, the women i love the most” mind you he doesnt even knows my name my age or country, all our interaction ever was was me liking a few of his stories and him sending me religious content posts / memes now im not trying to guess him im wondering why do men in general do this? I’ve noticed it in my experience a LOT

now if i meet anyone who idealizes or puts me on a pedestal i get the immediate ick due to my past trauma with such men, men why do you do this? Women have you ever been able to have a successful relationship with one of those types?