My situationship of 3 weeks just wanted to end thing because of this.
18M and 18F.
We clicked so good and have seen each other 3 times now. We have had fun and a nice time together.
But yesterday my ex gf of 3.5 years, who I broke up with about 2 months ago, contacted me again.
She physically abused me and cheated on me during the relationship. After we broke up she came to my door banging on my door and window and shouting hysterically.
I told my current girl that my ex contacted me, what she said to me, and what I told her. I basically told my ex to never ever contact me again. Then she contacted me in a different place and I told her to fuck off and never contact me ever again anywhere, and if she sees me somewhere don't come speak to me.
I told my current girl all of this and what my ex did to me in the past.
After some time she said I'm weird because I talk to her about my ex. When I apologized, she just said that I don't need to think about her anymore and then left me on read.
Like why do I get sent off for being honest and telling her about my past bad experiences? They were traumatic to me and I wanted to tell someone about it, and that's what I get from it?
Does this seem weird to you guys or is what she did after I told her completely justified?
I also thought, should I try to send one more message tomorrow in case she got the whole thing wrong, like thinking I'm not over my ex or something?
Posted Jul 25, 2026, 11:31 PM UTC