can’t add girls on social media

So there’s this crazy situation i am stuck into.I am into college from past 1 year and i never added any girls on my instagram account since i started it.I had my girlfriend added only on a spam acc so i didn’t think of it much back then. Now that we broke up and i started using my main acc often but i can’t even add any girl now because if i do so she’ll think i am some kinda desperate or loser that i only have one girl added in my acc so i don’t take any risk by doing so. because of this i can’t add any girl pr talk to anyone and getting cornered at some point(i am an a**h*le)