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mrFrankenburry

42 [m4f] #Indiana Blue collared man for a long term AP

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I'm a married guy with kids and I'm not looking to change my situation or yours. If you understand discretion and have your own life together we'll probably get along just fine.

I'm the kind of guy who's happiest when I'm outside. If something's broke I'd rather fix it than replace it. I enjoy working around the house tackling projects getting my hands dirty going for a run or taking a drive with no real destination. I'm always up for finding a small-town diner checking out a new coffee shop or spending the day outdoors instead of sitting inside.

I'd like to meet someone from Indiana. I think it's just easier when you're close enough that seeing each other doesn't turn into a major production. I have plenty of freedom during the day so I'm looking for someone who does too. I'd like something where we can actually get together regularly instead of trying to squeeze in one meetup every month.

Personality matters more than anything in this world. I like a woman who's easy to talk to can laugh at herself doesn't take life too seriously and isn't afraid to throw a little sarcasm around. If you laugh so hard you snort I'll probably be trying to make it happen again five minutes later.

I'm white in shape and generally attracted to someone who's HWP to chubby. At the end of the day it's more about whether we click than checking boxes.

Aaaaannnddd guess what? I'm pretty much scam proof. If you're halfway across the country can't verify you're real or you're eventually going to ask for money or gift cards we'll both save time by skipping each other. I'd rather chat with someone genuine who's actually interested in meeting and I'm not interested in online only at all. I'm also an ass to people I dont like so you'll go nowhere. I will buck up.

Let's talk for a bit swap pictures when we're both comfortable and do a quick daytime voice/video note swap so we know we're both real. If we click maybe we can find a back road grab some coffee or just enjoy getting away from the everyday for a while.

If this sounds like your kind of pace send me a message. Good conversation is hard to find and I'd like to think there's still someone out there who's looking for the same thing

To make sure you actually read my post and aren't a robot, please start your first message to me with the word 'Blueberry'

Posted Jul 25, 2026, 11:43 PM UTC

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