Quadriplegic woman navigating single life for the first time post injury

Sexuality

Hi guys, I need some guidance!

I was in a long-term relationship before my injury , but like what happens to a lot of people after I broke my neck things just didn’t work out between us anymore.

It took me years to feel confident enough to even think about dating again, now that I finally do, I have absolutely no idea where to start lol. Are dating apps actually worth it? Or would I be better off finding a new hobby or joining some groups and trying to meet people naturally? I don’t want to force anything or go into every situation looking for a relationship. I just genuinely want to meet new people... flirt a bit and see if anything develops.

I have friends and a good social life, so I’m not really lonely. It’s just that my romantic and sex life is completely nonexistent and I really miss having that part of my life.

How did you get back into dating after your injury? If you used apps, did you show or mention your disability on your profile straight away?

TIA

Posted Jul 26, 2026, 11:36 PM UTC

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