Mehr = being sold for marriage

idk if anyone talked abt this but mehr is litch the groom paying a price for the bride = buying someone. it’s not romantic or lovely it’s scary. you are literally paying to marry someone which is stupid and mysoginistic. im glad I left this religion now so I can marry someone who won’t pay me to marry me in the future if I do ever get married because I have that choice. a lot of young girls and women don’t