how do u deal with the angry stage of healing when u realize he only took u for granted?

how do u guys deal with the angry stage of healing when you realize he only took you for granted?

when it feels like he drained the life out of you. he drained u financially. he only saw u as an object to fulfill all of his sexual fantasies.

how do u cope with the fact that the person u gave everything to chose to misunderstand u and only saw the bad sides of u?