AITA for being completely embarrassed of being seen with my ‘friend’ ?

She wears bonnet every single day to everything. As a black girl I also wear my bonnet at home and I completely understand wearing a bonnet to run errands all though I myself don’t do it. But I think it’s embarrassing and vulgar to wear bonnets if we’re having a hangout at a cafe.

I asked her if she ever considered wearing silk scarfs and she said they made her look old??

I think wearing a bonnet is the same as wearing pyjamas out in public, I understand if wearing it to run errands but to actually wear on a daily basis when outside is iffy.

She even wants to start at the same gym as me and I’m honestly regret telling her where I worked out.

I know I’m being judgemental but I wouldn’t care if she didn’t stick my side like a magnet.

Posted Jul 26, 2026, 11:43 PM UTC · locked

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