First time watcher and so many feelings!

I started watching this series recently and had already heard about the West and Amanda scandal well before I got to season 10.
I don’t even know where to begin! Kyle is an immature man child but he is genuine I feel and loves deeply. So far there have been two blow ups about Kyle saying “fuck you” to Amanda.
This obviously isn’t ok, but it really feels like this season she has been intentionally rage bating him with her smirks, body language, literally everything. Am I the only one that has seen this?
There is just something so off about her this season that I clocked immediately and it’s given me the ick.