I (16m) am terrible with figuring out if a girl likes me and need help

Hey,

There's a girl I've been snapping all day, every day for like 9 months. We hang out every day at school (when it's not summer ofc), she asks me how my day was everyday, NEVER leaves me on opened, asks questions about what I'm doing or listening to (we both bond over music and she sends me kind of "romantic" music sometimes) and sends me goodnight texts, etc.

I got to know her after first becoming acquainted with her after I spent like a year and a half being sad over my last rejection (pathetic, I know). But I remember first seeing her in the 9th grade when she was a new student and thought she was absolutely gorgeous but that there would be no chance we would ever get close.

I've met her mom and her dad, her mom knew who I was and said "you must be (my name)" and as for the dad, I was introduced to him through our shared music taste. I noticed her best friend doing small things like asking her subtly if she wanted to switch seats so she could sit across from me, but I'm not sure if that really means anything.

Sometimes when I look into her eyes and I feel like she likes me based on how she looks back but I'm really not sure.

My friends swear she likes me and are mad at me that I haven't asked her, but I'm just not convinced and I want some third party opinions because I'm just really bad at these things.

Thanks!!

Posted Jul 26, 2026, 11:47 PM UTC

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