Need help because I don’t feel like a priority?
We met up Thursday, Friday and Saturday and did stuff each day. One of the days his brother had a brunch and the other day we met up and he stayed 2 hours and then left. The next day we did something else and we stayed about 3 maybe more hours.
Sometime after we went official he kept asking me to go to his place and I said no. We only saw each other once a week at the time. We talked about it and I guess he asked how long till I would. I asked him to keep things on my timeline. He now cuts things shorter with us. When we first started going out he didn’t do that, no matter what timr we meet if it’s after work or if it’s earlier even on weekends. I also noticed plans are very idk. He asks me to meet up but idk what the point is if we only stay super short times. But before we’d kiss a lot more and now we don’t. I don’t like how brief everything feels. And for him to go from pushing me to come over to suddenly not, I do wonder if he’s seeing more people.
He also typically texts me when he’s back home, he said he had chores. And then he didn’t that one day. I hate howi don’t feel secure in this. I feel like he’s literally going out with other women or he’s lying and just penciling me in and then seeing other people. He literally introduced me to his friends on many occasions and stuff and calls me his girlfriend but I just feel like something is off. He sometimes forgets stuff about me and I’m tired of feeling this way.
He says he’s busy but the change in behavior makes me think he’s not even hiding that he’s seeing more people. I don’t feel good at all and I just wanna have the strength to break this off
For someone pushing sex so much earlier and now not even really wanting to spend much time together I feel likehes just keeping me around. We never were intimate and itsbeen like 4 months but the first 2 we saw each other once a week maybe even less time. And he was pushing for me to come over around month 2 and I said not yet and it’s kind of been something I guess I sssumed we’d bring up again. He keeps asking to see me and stuff but I’m just confused why if he only has 2 hours for me and he’s barely even being affectionate anymore. So I am sad. We didn’t have sex we’ve been official for like 1 ish month and we’ve seen each other total of 3 maybe a bit closer to 4. I feel like ever since he’s asked me to his place and I’ve said no, he cuts time shorter with us which makes me worry he only wants that
Posted Jul 26, 2026, 11:48 PM UTC