29 [F4A] My tastes are evolving as I get more mature... I love being on top now, taking charge, anal (sometimes).

When I was younger, I could not imagine taking charge in the bedroom. I was quite submissive, would never initiate anything, and relied on dominant, assertive - you could even say aggressive - boyfriends to push my buttons. In those days, I fantasized about being taken, tied up, overwhelmed, being a damsel in distress overpowered by her knight.

I must admit that this has changed as I feel more and more mature, experienced, and in tune with my body and my needs. These days I really enjoy being the initiator, getting on top (even showing my meticulously waxed butthole in reverse cowgirl, which so hits different), showing my body while I ride my men. Maybe losing a few pounds since I go to the gym regularly now also boosted my confidence. I never got so many compliments for my body (mostly my tits and ass, to be honest), as I do nowadays (although both were certainly bigger a few years ago before I lost weight).

The only disadvantage is that men cum very quickly if the woman rides them. Good foreplay is important, especially if it gets me extra wet to slide onto the pole to dance.

Lastly, I have recently had really good anal sex. When I was younger, it was usually the guy begging for it and me giving in once or twice before it got to pathetic. These days, I feel a lot more comfortable around my own butthole; sometimes I lube it up during masturbation just to slip a finger or two in. It makes me cum in a different way. I have only cum from anal twice, but both times were quite different experiences compared to my normal orgasms. I feel like I might prefer anal doggy to normal doggy even. I have never tried anal while on top but I think it could be really great. I am a bit afraid to try it.

All in all, I feel quite comfortable with my sexuality these days, and I am looking forward to things to cum.