A LITTLE HELP PLS?!?????

Guyssssss, I attract literally EVERYONE but my SP with Guoba's dream man subs 😭😭😭 and the man keeps emphasizing how single he is on tiktok, and I don't want to have to pursue him first. I don't chase, I need to attraaaaaact him 😭😭🫠 a little help pls. I listened to Nocturnum for months now, I listened to Guoba, tried Demonetta, listened to Cee and listened to Vampuff too. I attract ex talking stages from waaaaay back 😭😭😭 and the thing is I don't really obsess over manifesting this SP because automatically I think about my past sp when I listen but whenever I enter tiktok I see this new SP....he's so perfect. I want him. And I already have it it's just the 3D delaying 😭😭😭😭😭 help guys plssssss, I've been single for literally all my life