I feel guilty

Im sorry this is such a long post, i’m not sure how to start but my aunt’s husband (my uncle i guess) has been weird to me for so long. They got married in 2015 and the first time i met him was then, in pakistan. I was 6 years old. Since then i’ve seen him every 2ish years either in pakistan or dubai (where they live). A vivid memory before this summer was in 2023 when he told me that he was going to bring me on a golfing day with all of his friends. I laughed and told him i dont know how to golf and he said i can just come as his “eye candy”. I was 14 and he was 46.
Him and his family finally got their visas approved and came in early july to stay with us. They have 2 little boys, my uncle is a ceo of a business and has a very snotty attitude to everyone, very narcissistic.
Ive noticed that he always talks about money and brags about his money and business and stuff, saying things like “these golf clubs could buy your house” and “i bet youll never see more than a few millions” to my dad. My dad is incredibly patient so nobody has said anything about it.
About a week into them being here all the adults were drinking downstairs and i was just laying down in my room until my uncle came inside. He closed the door behind him and he was super drunk, he asked me what im doing and i told him “im on tiktok”, i was laying down in my bed. He then said “youre such a teenage girl” and sat down at the end of my bed. I asked him “what does that mean” and he didnt say anything and was just staring at me. Then he laid down for a bit with his head right near my butt because i was laying on my side. Right as he did that i turned onto my back to get up but he got on top of my hella quickly and put his face right at my neck. He said in urdu “do you ever think of me?” (as a direct translation). I was frozen and didnt know what to do, hes very tall and kinda muscular so i was terrified. Then he put one of his hands at the like band of my sweatpants and i immediately got out from under him. I went to the bathroom and to be honest i threw up and showered for incredibly long. I am already super sensitive and uncomfortable with sexual things. I have suspicions of me being asexual for incredibly long, i made a post about it a while ago too. I didnt tell anyone about that, i was so scared of anything happening. Since then, i lock my bedroom door at night and literally almost every night at around 2-3am i hear my doorknob being like touched and stuff (he sleeps downstairs and i sleep upstairs).
However, yesterday we were all supposed to go to the city. I came downstairs and my uncle was standing in the kitchen and his wife next to him. It was just us 3 and i know my aunt never says anything to him and lets him get away with anything. He said to me “wow you look pretty” and i just smiled and poured myself a glass of water. I wanted to leave but he said “you know you have a super high sex appeal” i looked at my aunt to see if she’d do anything but she just looked at me. He said “do you know what that means?” And i said “no” and he said “some girls are just cute or sexy or hot or have a good personality, but you have all of it” i immediately left. when we went to the city i was off all day and my older brother (hes 19 and im 17) kept asking me whats wrong. At this point it was me and him walking behind everyone else. I started crying and told him everything, he got so mad and he was hugging me and comforting me. Usually hes super chill and like stoic but he was really mad. He told me to tell my mom (who already hates my uncle). I told my mom and she was shocked, she asked if my aunt (her sister) said anything and i said no. A few hours later she told my dad. It was just us 4 and we were talking about what should we do. My brother was the most mad out of all of them and he was like “he knew not to say that in front of me” and stuff. Then my uncle came up to me and randomly asked me whats wrong. Everyone looked at him and my brother slapped him in the face and called him a bitch. My uncle pushed him off, didnt say anything and left. My dad kicked them out last night and they are staying in a hotel about an hour away. They think theyre going to come back in a few days but my parents are going to go and tell them never to come back.
My mom wants to cut off ties with her sister and my dad doesn’t want their family near us and i just feel really uncomfortable with this whole situation. I feel partially bad that such big decisions are being made because of me. Idk i feel a lot of things because i feel so violated and scared in my own home but idk what to do. How do i go back to feeling normal like i feel guilty about this whole thing