AITA for telling my friend that she’s being inconsiderate?

I’m at church camp right now, and it’s midnight. we were put to bed an hour ago, we’re both high schoolers, and usually we wouldn’t go to bed right away and instead talk, but my friend isn’t feeling good. She feels really sick, and has thrown up once or twice.

shes been calling all her family members - her mom, grandma, grandpa, and older sibling. her mom has driven 10 hours from a different location to her house, and her grandpa took sleeping pills and is askeep. Her grandma recently had surgery, had can’t drive. All of her family members have promised to pick her up in the morning, but she’s insisting that her grandpa gets up to take her home. It’s an hour drive to her house and back, so earliest she can get picked up is at 1am.

despite that, she’s still calling and asking after 45+ minutes. I’m also feeling really nauseous, I’m tired but I can’t fall asleep, and I’ve overheating - but she is using the box fan (it’s facing towards her, and I can’t move it towards me without her losing all the cooling air)

I told her she was being inconsiderate because she knows how I feel right now, and asked her since it was midnight if she could call outside of the room because I need to sleep, and i feel like shit. AITA?

Posted Jul 27, 2026, 6:59 AM UTC

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