Why aren’t alternative men seen as attractive like alt women are?

everyone knows about the “big tiddy goth gf” meme, and how alrernative women are almost annoyed that non-subculture men find them hot too. but we rarely talk about how there js no equivalent for guys. I feel as alternative dude that most non subculture women immediaty nope you because for men the only acceptable look is the “sporty and outdorsy” one.