Deen first 🕌, ambition second 🚀, romance always 🤍. 25M, Turkish 🇹🇷, Netherlands 🇳🇱

Assalamu alaikum 🌙 25M, Anatolian Turkish, living in the Netherlands.

Not here to date around. Looking for a wife, not a situationship that quietly becomes one. If that's not your goal too, no hard feelings, just scroll on.

🧠 About Me

- 25 years old, 180cm

- ADHD: hyperfocus, low dopamine baseline, some executive dysfunction. Chemistry, not laziness, telling you upfront so it's never a surprise

- Traditional Sunni Muslim, faith runs everything I do. I lead on that front, and I'm still working on my own weak spots too

- Anatolian Turkish, proud of my culture, but only where it lines up with Islam. Deen comes first, always

- Computer engineer, full time, I'd say I'm intellectual and sharp minded by nature, always reading, thinking, and questioning things deeper than the surface

- Hopeless romantic, I feel things intensely, not the lukewarm kind of love

- Love deep talks: religion, politics, history, philosophy. Bring your arguments

- Building a B2B SaaS company that funds a bigger vision: a center serving the Muslim community

- Simple joy: spontaneous road trips, no fixed plan, just drive

- I read people well. One blind spot: rejection sensitivity, I name it when it happens

❤️ What I'm Looking For

- Marriage. Not casual, not "let's see"

- Younger than me

- Someone genuinely intelligent, who can hold her own in a real conversation and challenge how I think, not just agree along

- Her own vision of what a good marriage looks like, in her own words

- Her own five year vision for herself too, not just "wife and mother"

- Talks instead of goes quiet, no avoidance

- Real physical and emotional intimacy matters deeply to me, high libido, want to know we're compatible

- A little playful and teasing, coy affection shown through gestures, not just spelled out flatly

- Someone tested by real life, not just easy days

📍 One Practical Thing

I'm settled here in the Netherlands, work and plans are built around this life, I'm not in a position to relocate. If we build something, it means you coming to live here with me. I know that's a real thing to ask. I'd just want to know early if that's something you could genuinely want, not something you'd resent later.

🚫 Dealbreakers

- Hot and cold energy

- Avoidance instead of communication

- Emotion running the show during conflict

- Stubbornness for its own sake

- Disrespect (one chance, not more)

📩 DM Me If This Sounds Like You

Skip "hey," send me instead:

1. A short introduction of yourself

2. What intrigued you most about this post

That's it. Simple, but it already tells me who actually read this and who didn't.

I like moving to a voice call fairly quickly once things click, texting only goes so far. Insha'Allah 🤍