Healing the Manosphere and gender hate -

The manosphere hurts everyone and destroys hope for the future of our world in every way and every level . I am a single mother of a son and daughter . I don’t blame the manosphere for the polarization of genders , I blame the device I’m holding in my hand to text this. Our values and morals are out of whack on both sides and project 2025 and church is not a solution.

Boys and men: Imagine growing up and your feelings are forbidden. No reactions allowed . Be strong , don’t cry . Real men don’t cry. Real men take care of everything and everyone, without a care for themselves. They have to be strong physically , financially, knight on white horse , protect , work hard , and solve all problems with ease (while also not being allowed to feel !).

Girls and women: we couldn’t even take out loans until the mid 1970’s! We are generationally behind in regards to finances (in most cases ), have the majority of student loans , we are the head of the household when divorced and primary custodian meaning we have the children the majority of the time , and our roles never end . Don’t get me started on invisible labor , the pink tax , or pay inequality. For times sake , let’s just focus on why we don’t want to or why we have chosen to delay or not reproduction…

Odds are roughly 50/50 you will have a female or male child .

We are seeing an unhealthy manosphere that is trafficking women and children, rapes , abuses , gaslights , denies , and makes millions on this insane unhealthy patriarchy that intentionally targets male children starting in middle school (if you don’t believe me , do an experiment - start a YouTube with a male in middle school and a female in 20’s and search the same words for female empowerment ). If in the manosphere one is raised to not ever be allowed to care and not to experience what it’s like to be cared for , and most importantly LOVED… and women and girls are being trafficked , raped , and abused daily and on every screen to where it’s normalized ! We have more than a manosphere issue , we have a humanity crisis that is current .

The antidote , sounds easy , but it’s not when one was raised not to be able to care … and the other not to be able to trust .

Love cures everything ? BUT… what if you were raised to not experience emotions ? we need to quit creating divides that are pointless and cause pain.

My great grandmother always told me , “ leave everything better than the way you found it.” It’s your corner of the world . What do you want to be known for ? Breeding hate ? Or creating a community that thrives and is connected ? If you died right now , what would they say about you ?

We need our men ! We need our women ! We all deserve to be valued, special , and connected . That’s human nature - on the most basic level. If we oppress one side , things will go sideways . Love can’t be forced . Let’s quit this insanity ! We are all human beings!!!!!!