52M - Oakland, CA - SF Bay Area

I'm a kind, generous, funny, handsome-ish, techie guy with a dry and absurd sense of humor. Born and raised abroad and moved to America when as an adult, but have no accent. I'd be a great spy!

I make new friends easily but have very few deep friendships. I read a lot, mostly nonfiction. I mostly listen to indie, alternative, EDM, progressive rock and metal.

I'm not much into pop culture or sports, but if you’re into it I’m always willing to give it shot a learn something new!

I admire women who are kind, fun, nerdy and artsy, who know what they want but are open minded and willing to build a no-strings-attached relationship based on honesty, discretion, mutual trust and shared interests. In a perfect world she would be excited to teach me something she’s passionate about (language, skill, dance move or card game).

I believe a partnership-in-crime needs to be cultivated over time, hopefully with both of us enjoying and benefiting from the journey, which is always more important than the proverbial destination.

Chemistry is everything. It's hard to pinpoint it, but you know it when you feel it.