21F. Lost a 6-Year Friendship, and It Still Hurts.

Friendship

I'm 21F

I had a very close friend since 9th grade. She was always kind to me and treated me well.

She was a cis girl. I'm a trans girl.

However, she had some habits I didn't agree with. She would date other guys even while she was already in a relationship. I was the only person who knew about it.

When she went to Delhi for NEET coaching, she got pregnant by her coaching teacher. She was about a month pregnant at the time.

Later, she broke up with her long-term boyfriend and started dating a new guy. They were together for about two months.

One day, that new guy messaged me on Instagram. He said, "You're the closest person to her and you've known her for years. I'm getting serious about her, but I've noticed a change in her behaviour. Please tell me about her past. "

He was a very decent guy.

I told him everything I knew.. about the casual relationships, and the fact that she had dated other people while already being in a relationship.

He decided to break up with her.

Three days later, she connected the dots and realised that I was the one who had told him.

She ended our friendship.

Now I feel conflicted. Whatever kind of person she was, she was always good to me. I still feel bad about losing her as a friend.

Though, what she was doing wasn't right.

Posted Jul 29, 2026, 6:39 AM UTC

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