Update: Friend Definitely Knows

Today, I was talking to someone about life being short and the importance of friendships. Long story short, a friend on a call a week or two ago, when talking about exes and kinks, said I was probably into diapers (lucky guess). I thought he must have known right then and there and that he had a sneaking suspicion. He is my best friend since we were young, and I was thinking maybe I had left something out or maybe when he was looking at something on my phone, saw something, idk. Long story short, he doesn’t even remember saying that on the phone, but we spoke today, and I told him. It had been eating me up inside because this is a person I value so much in my life, and that fear was overwhelming for years that he would find out and leave. So when he said that, I thought, well, he must know and he hasn’t gotten up and left yet lol, well… he didn’t know lol and was surprised but he does know of ABDL and so thankfully I didn’t have to explain too much. It turns out he is rather kinky too and is into some roughy equal kinks on the bdsm iceberg, and his worst fear was me finding out and losing me as a friend. I am overwhelmingly relieved to say the slightest. It feels great to know that a ride or die friend now knows everything is the same best friend who thinks the same of me today as yesterday.

TLDR: we thought he knew… he didn’t… went great!