Found out a now ex friend is wanting to come back into my life.
Me and this chick had known each other for about three years. She'd been through a lot of trauma, so we ended up trauma bonding. I've always been there for her, and I thought she was there for me too. Looking back now, I should've known she was an emotional manipulator and a liar.
She admitted to me before that she tells white lies when she's nervous. She also lied to another friend of hers, claiming someone was visiting her apartment when no one was actually there. She only lied so she could avoid the other girl coming over.
The biggest lie she told was when a family member of hers supposedly passed away during a big storm where she used to live. She said she was heading to her home state for the funeral. She even sent me a picture of this woman and told me her name, but I had a feeling something wasn't quite right. I later found out it was some random woman who went by a completely different name than the one she gave me, the lady was alive and well at that point I should’ve cut her off entirely but I decided to
decided to shrug it off and let it go.
While she was supposedly on that trip I found out she got engaged and she told her other friends without telling me, I ended up confronting her about it cause I thought we were closer than that she kept apologizing and asked me to be her maid of honor so I said yes.
Shortly after that she blocked me and one of her friends from high school. Four months later, my friend finally heard back from her, and she said the reason she blocked both of us was because of mental health issues and she had a miscarriage I decided to forgive her cause I felt bad, about a week later, she blocked me again after she had initiated talking on the phone at that point, I got very mad. Then, a month later, she told our other friend that she was sorry for what she did. After that, we went a whole year without any problems, even though it was a long-distance friendship.
Then, out of the blue, she blocked me again.
Now, six months later, our other friend told me that she decided to unblock me and that she's scared and wants me to message her. 🙃
I feel stupid for forgiving her that many times.
Posted Jul 29, 2026, 6:48 AM UTC