What are some of the things that make you feel like a winner as an INFJ?

For me, one thing would be the ability to flourish in enjoying things--like singing--that don't depend on the approval, validation, Etc., of other people.

I've also mastered the premise that existing is, as a context, fertile ground for the imagining of endless possibilities that give it meaning whether certain things come to fruition or not.

This perspective ensures some part of life is always an adventure, not a trap.