None of you want ACTUALLY want "friends" :)

I've tried over and over to post on this subreddit for friends and who messages me? NOTHING but straight cis dudes who are definitely wanting to be "" justfriends"" (sure buddy). And when I go to their profile, they're either in active in suuuper suspicious subreddits or ONLY responding to a dozen other women's post. And speaking of the women, y'all aren't really looking for friends either it seems because how come when I post and I explicity state I'm looking for FEMALE friends, it's crickets?! Not to mention how none of y'all can keep a conversation or how people ghost after a few days of chatting. Everyone wants attention, to be more than just friends, or worse!! I give up.