I finally reported him
After 6 years of physical, verbal,emotional,mental,financial and coercive abuse i finally left. And I am so scared.
Ive told the police everything. Ive been waiting nearly 2 weeks to make my statement. I keep calling to chase them up but have been told to wait. Ive spoken to the NCDV they said they will help me get an emergency injunction if the judge grants it. Im also applying for full custody of our child.
He continues to send me horrible messages nearly everyday. Its exhausting and im scared and my anxoety and stress is so high. Ive made an application to my council to increase my bidding band so I can hopefully move sooner and get a new address he won't know to be safer.
Im left waiting for all the professionals to help me and I dont know what to do. My stress and anxiety are constantly sky high as he threatens to come to my home and bring his friends too as he said he will becoming inside no matter what.
But even so I finally left him. I finally did it. I dont engage in anything unless relating to our child. Im happy i did. I just wish everyone would help me more quickly to put up protection.
I just needed to vent somewhere. Thank you for reading.
Posted Jul 29, 2026, 6:52 AM UTC