Nobody even me from an alt account can view my friendslist or see me on my friends ones.. Not based in the UK either.

I got a 24 hour ban recently because someone spam reported me after i was on them for running around copying our avatars. Long story short i noticed with a plugin i have that i apparently removed my friend/they remove me? i started too look on more profiles and they said the same thing. when i go to these peoples friends lists I do not show up even tho it counts me as another number on they're friendslist still. Then i tried to view my own friendslist and it said i had 14 friends. but where are they? it said i had none. so now ive freaked out and asked my friends to check my account from they're pov. someone said i show up fine but when they view my friendslist, it says 0 friends while telling me with the text message that i have no friends. does this mean something? am i in a process of getting terminated or something? i don't know whats going on but ive never experienced this before. little concerned.