Help me understand this..

Seeking Advice

I'm 28M been in this process for more than a year, I have been rejected by many women over this period. Upon reflecting I see a common pattern among them.

Like they do ask me,

Do you have many friends

How is your social circle and movement

Are you an introvert

Do you stay silent in general

When I say I have a limited friend circle and we don't meet often these days and say I'm introvert, they suddenly lose interest a little.

Why is it that introverted people are such a turn off for women?

Introverts don't like social movement in general, it's not like that we can't talk with people, we can talk to people the same as extroverts, but we only do when required.

Why is it considered so bad for women?

Seeing this, i started calling myself an ambivert because most women don't understand the meaning of introvert.

Posted Jul 29, 2026, 6:56 AM UTC

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