Growth Mindset have only 2 option

First adapt with destiny

What we have house car etc all things which blongs to us given by our parents and society just accept it and adapt and take care of those things live happy postive less stress what we call it protectiveness taking action no any regret or guilt and no desires to move forward

Second Create your own destiny

You have restlessness even you have enough to survive but you have desire for more and you choose the path where you put yourself in stress and set goals see vision you get out of comfert zone put yourself in challenges you try to get max out of your potential

In this circumstances which you create and not get back and move forward with gratitude put your 100% and let the results on universe live positive you understand what you are creating and live happy embrace all problems as opertunity.