I left out some important context in my last post and now I am even more confused

Thanks to everyone who gave suggestions on my last post. I realised I left out some important details, and that made my situation look very different from what it actually is.

Pata Hai Aaj Kya Hua so I am 21M and she is 20F. We have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years and we have talked about our future seriously. She has my photo as her wallpaper on her phone. She has told about me to her brother, and her friend circle also knows that I am her boyfriend. We follow each other on Instagram too.

She has always been very excited to meet me. She has told me many times that when I come to her place, she wants to stay with me, sleep beside me, and be close with me through hugs and kisses. No sex, just that level of intimacy. She also prepared a lot of gifts for me like food and dresses. Once her mother even caught her while she was doing all this, but she still told me that she does not want to lose me.

One thing I forgot to mention earlier is that the shirtless men reels she used to share were from before we were in a relationship, around class 10 or 11. She was very different back then. She used to sexualise male private parts, and she was also a BTS fan at that time. Now she is in 3rd year, she does not do that anymore, and she has unfollowed all boys from Instagram except her brothers and cousins.

Her childhood was also not normal. Her father has two wives and she has seen violence in her family. Because of all that, I think she grew up very differently from how most people did. I am not saying that excuses everything, but it is part of her background.

I am also a software engineer and I have helped her with studies and DSA for internship preparation. So it is not like we do not support each other.

Last night I brought up breakup in anger, and she instantly agreed. She said okay if that is what I want, she is fine with it. But at the end she said I love you. That part stayed with me the most.

After reading so many comments yesterday, I was very overwhelmed. Most people said she is not the one, but after thinking about everything again, I feel like I may have painted her as the villain without explaining the full picture.

Now I am just stuck in my head, because I love her too and I do not know how to process all of this.