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I've been on and off with the same girl for a long time. We were seeing each other regularly, but things got complicated, and I became emotionally exhausted. The last time we talked, we both agreed we'd hang out another day, and I told her we'd plan it later.

The problem is... I never reached back out. She didn't either, but I was the one who said I'd set it up, and I never followed through. About a month later, she unfollowed me on Instagram, which I took as her being upset with me for disappearing. Even though she unfollowed me, she still watches all my stories and seems to keep tabs on my social media.

I never followed Corey Wayne's advice of waiting 7 days and reaching out once. I just stopped all communication completely. It's been a few months now, and I'm wondering if it's worth sending one simple text asking if she'd like to grab a drink,

I'm not looking to jump into a serious relationship with her. I want to keep her as a fwb type girl. What would you guys do in this situation?

TL;DR: Things got complicated, I never followed up after we agreed to plan another date, and she unfollowed me a month later. It's been a few months should I send one simple text,

Thanks guys

Posted Jul 29, 2026, 1:01 PM UTC

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