What does it mean to ‘look autistic’?

You’re probably expecting the classic ‘You have autism? But you don’t look autistic’ here. I’ve seen the memes, been there, not done that.

Mine (F30) is the opposite problem. I apparently look autistic. Have autism vibes. Give off those wavy stink lines above my head, but autism. Like it wafts off me in public and everyone can smell it.

Several times, at least 4 now, I’ve read reports or received comments from people that state I seem autistic to them. It happened again today, I read a doctor’s comment about me and it said that ‘’they can’t shake the possibility of autism spectrum disorder’’. Saw them for about half an hour on an entirely different issue. This doctor noted that I appear ‘’pale and very shy’’ which, sure. My face is unfortunate too.

What does appearing autistic even mean? What about my face and mannerisms is wrong that I’m giving off autism vibes? Does this ever happen to other people? Is it because I look like I work nights? Why does everyone and their mom think I’m autistic from appearance?

I'm neurotypical for all intents and purposes. I need advice because this is really getting to me. It’s making me feel very insecure interacting with people.