"Not all men" is so widespread because people don't see porn as harmful

When people usually think about "bad things" men do they think rape, SA, etc... and think that this is a minority, that all the others are the good guys, that they never did anything to oppress women in their lives! And not only this is not true because misogyny is a spectrum (from passively defending other men to brutality and rape), but trafficking and the prostitution/porn industry is forgotten in all of this. I genuinely don't understand how this isn't a more widespread subject, probably because this is so normalized as personal preferences. When more than 80% of men have already visited websites where violence rape and pedophilia is in free access, and when entire countries are normalizing buying access to bodies, then no i don't think it's "not all men". Feminism seems to be the only movement where hating your oppressor is apparently forbidden in leftist spaces. Liberal feminists are defending men that would probably hurt them if they could. I don't even want to fight anymore all it does is bring me disgust for the human race