Scorpio and Aquarius, honest question.

I’m getting close with an Aquarius man, and I really care about building something healthy with him.

He values independence and space, and I don’t want him to ever feel controlled or pressured. At the same time, I’ve noticed that sudden distance or silence can make me overthink, and I want to communicate that I need some reassurance without making him feel like he’s losing his freedom.

I also really value my own independence and autonomy, but I’ve realized that my emotional depth can sometimes be mistaken for attachment by people who aren’t used to feeling safe expressing that side of themselves.

He’s one of the smartest people I’ve ever met, and I think part of what drew us together is that we can challenge each other mentally and see things from different angles. I don’t want to lose that by approaching things the wrong way, but I’m also not used to someone I can’t easily read.

For Aquarius men: what’s the best way a partner can communicate emotional needs in a way that still feels good to your independence?

— signed, a Scorpio who comes in peace 🦂