Question to transmeds

What distinguishes you from radfems? As far as I understand, the main topics of your debate are who is more transgender and who is not. I looked at various forums and saw posts by people who adhere to transmedical ideas. There was a discussion about whether a trans man can be feminine, and everyone condemned it, calling those who are trans men but still retain some feminine traits "false transgender." By the standards of transmedicalism, even I am a false transgender, because I have processed my dysphoria and associate the genital organ with something feminine, and I believe that this does not negate my femininity. I feel like I'm communicating not with transgender people, but with big fans of J.K. Rowling. In my opinion, much of the transmedical approach is transphobic, forcing transgender people into strict boxes, excluding the dysphoria and experiences of non-binary and gender-fluid people. I really hope that those who adhere to the transmedical approach will present worthy arguments and explain that your approach is not inherently transphobic, because, as I already said, your movement is more suited to the transphobic community of radfems, and not the trans community.