How to get rid of my crazy ex ?
26F here, been in a relationship since January 2026 with 27M
The relationship was good in the beginning, he seemed genuine, honest and smart.
Three months into it, I discover that our guy is an alcoholic, not honest at all, no ambitions or goals in life and most importantly zero emotional intelligence.
This is where the shit show started : disrespectful actions towards me (example : hiding informations, lying, following girls online, posting pictures of him with other girls, not taking into consideration my opinion concerning things that matter to both of us, physical violence, neglect)
> when I communicate clearly about what hurt me
> I get dismissed and get told that I am dramatic and ´tandir mn l7ebba 9oba’
> feelings for him start fading aways
When I weighted the pros and cons of this relationship and compared it with where I want to be in life, the two visions do not match.
After a big fight with him, where things escalated to a verbal insults competition between us, he said some extremely humiliating words to me, weaponizing my current problems, trauma and insecurities. I have left and said that I have decided to end things for good.
A week later he calls me non stop from many numbers, creates new instagram and facebook accounts and adds me, sends glovo orders to my house, comes knocking at my door, sends flowers to my job and lately waiting dor me to comeback from work at my neighborhood in front of my building. (Mind you I live alone with a flatmate 🙃)
All this chasing from his part is causing me to have extreme anxiety attacks, losing appetite and not being able to sleep.
I have been to the police station and did what I had to do. I don’t know what they will do in my case…
If you are my ex and reading this… LEAVE ME ALONE I DO NOT LOVE YOU AND I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU
If you are a regular redditor, be kind im all ears for any piece of advice ❤️
Posted Jul 29, 2026, 1:06 PM UTC