The disconnect between fantasy and reality

Like many men here I love to hear the details of the "abuse" these poor things have suffered through.

But when I read there's almost universally a glaring disconnect between what people say they want, and what they're actually willing to do. So often you hear stories "my stepdad raped me, and so I moved in with my boyfriend but when he punched me I left". They pretend they want "total control and destruction", but when you press them it's "Oh, no, I can't visit you I'm saving my holidays", etc.

My last partner I met in a pub. We spoke for hours. That night she moved in and we never had a conversation again. She slept on a concrete balcony from April to August - Finnish winters are cold - and when she lived with me I kicked her out to go to work in the morning, and when she returned there was no more speaking, no more being an adult, or an equal. She got a shower once a day, she was regularly fed, but equally she spent all her nights alone and naked, often smelling of piss, or covered in wild nettles.

That level of objectification and "abuse" is what people here pretend they want, need, and crave. Yet you try saying "Where do you live?" or "Why are you using the internet?" and it's crickets and blocking.

Sure if I got a chat request I'd not expect somebody to submit immediately, you don't know me, you don't know us, or your future. But equally if people aren't being genuinie they're wasting your time and theirs. Anyone who immediately offers to serve is just using the chat to masturbate.

You need to know the difference between fantasy and reality, and express yourself clearly. None of this "no limits" bollocks. The moment I read that is the moment I write you off as another spammer and fake.

Anyway this is a vent. I guess I go back to looking at the tits, and remembering happy times when I had a pet of my own. Its no like women are people, after all. I'm sure I'll find another. And the good news? Finland is full of tall skinny blondes with blue eyes .. I have a type!