Was i asking my ex boyfriend too much?

me and my ex boyfriend started hanging out and we quickly got into talking stage, we made out few times so i asked him if i was his girlfriend and he replied i wasnt because he hasnt asked me out yet and he was planning to do that. so i waited for like a month or sth but he wasnt doing anything so i gave him deadline, because seemed like he needed push or we would stay on same page and i didnt want that, i wanted title. after i gave him deadline, next day he asked me out. but in general i mentioned him to many times that i loved going on dates and i wanted that with him that i loved stuff like that, which he always replied he would do that i was asking for bare minimum, he just needed time. we had some issues and we broke up because of that and after that we were going to go back together, however, break up affected me a lot and i genuinely lost hope and i loved him and everything but i was very scared of losing him. so i would bring up the fact that i wasnt his gf anymore a lot and that i wanted dates, in the end, i told him the truth that i felt sadness and depression lately after breakup and stuff, and he got mad and ended things with me saying i needed patience and also he was planning things but i didnt stop giving him deadlines he didnt ask for. was i overdoing it?